Who's unfair?

Today, I saw how a family had bought the house one of my best friends had lived gor almost all his life. They were out because they had economic problems which could not be solved on time. Whilst all this happened, I saw how his parents decided to live separated (although without divorce) and how his mother, little brother and him were forced to live at his grandmother's house. I guess I won't have to say how sad I am feeling now. All I will say is how I never say any tear drop from his eyes, how he always showed strenght when many others, myself for instance, would have gone down.

Many people blame God for all this but, is it there any other guilty than ourselves? Maybe some of us find it easier to lay the blame on God rather than on us. It is us who allow all this to happen, although I know that the bank cannot say "OK, from now on nobody has to pay their debts". What do we say to that?? How can we permit that tp happen?? It is us who is unfair, not anyone else.